Here is my VENT of the week :/
So chris comes home next month (say it with me...YAYYYYYYYY) and i have recently started the 30 day shred with a friend, who also happens to be another wife from the ship who also happenes to have had a baby recently too lol. Anywho, we are only on day 2 lol but committed to doing this the full 30 days and to keep motivating eachother. I posted online that we were doing this, and all of a sudden recieved a message from someone who will remain nameless. She basically told me that i look "ok for just having a baby" and that chris wont care what i look like, as long as the girls and i are waiting on the pier for him. I replied, saying that I am happy with how much weight i have lost so far, but that i wanted to look my absolute best for homecoming and it was important to me. she then proceeded to tell me as nicely as possible, that i was putting too much stock into my looks. Basically calling me vain.
IS IT vain of me to want to look as good as possible when i see my husband again for the first time in 7 months? Especially since the last time he saw me, i was 5 months pregnant. YES, my husband will love me and desire me, no matter who i look. but it deff couldnt hurt to look GREAT lol!
Not to mention, im not only doing this for HIM, im doing it for ME! i feel better when i am around 140lbs and a size 8. and when i feel better about myself, im a heck of a lot easier to live with....right babe? ;)
Everyone have a GREAT night!